{"id":152,"date":"2011-12-03T23:31:07","date_gmt":"2011-12-03T23:31:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/profbanks.com\/?p=152"},"modified":"2012-06-03T23:16:44","modified_gmt":"2012-06-03T23:16:44","slug":"straight-on-til-morning-reverb-broads-2011-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/profbanks.com\/?p=152","title":{"rendered":"Straight On ‘Til Morning: Reverb Broads 2011 #3"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Art by Roy Best<\/p><\/div>\n

Reverb Broads 2011, December 3<\/strong>: <\/em><\/p>\n

How did you become more of a grown-up this year? Or did you pull a Peter Pan and stubbornly remain childlike? (courtesy of Bethany<\/a>\u00a0at\u00a0http:\/\/bethanyactually.com\/<\/a>)<\/em><\/p>\n

I did two pretty adult things this year, though no one who knows me would ever respond in a lightning round with the word “grown-up.” The first may not seem like much to all you gorgeous fellow wage slaves out there, but I’ve actually held down a real, non-academic job for the last 12 months.<\/p>\n

I’ve been doing that since I was 15, you scoff? No big deal, you say?<\/p>\n

Perhaps it is no big deal. Perhaps you think I’m a spoiled ivory tower wimp who’s never done an honest day’s work in her life. I think you’d be less likely to say that if you’d ever graded 75 blue book essay exams in 36 hours, or written a 2.5 hour multimedia-enhanced lecture in an afternoon, while bouncing a baby basket with your foot.<\/p>\n

Academia, with a side of substitute teaching in two school districts, has been all I could manage in the years of fibromyalgia plus non-school-age children minus child care subsidies. I’m not complaining — teaching has allowed me to be there more for my boys (all three of them) than I ever dreamed I’d be able to. And, simply put, teaching is my vocation, in the old, spiritual-calling sense of the word.<\/p>\n

But I really, deeply, truly adore the job I have at Atlas Games<\/a> these days, and both my responsibilities and my hours have expanded since I started last November. I started out just handling customer service requests from the website, and managing the packing and shipping of orders to our distributors. I still have these duties, and I enjoy them, but I’ve been entrusted with the first pass of edits on our RPGs, and I’ve done art direction for the last two books, both of which really make the most of that part of my skill set.<\/p>\n

All this is made both possible by my fabulous bosses, John and Michelle Nephew<\/a>. I respect the hell out of both of them for their many talents, but more than that, they’re good people and good friends. They let me keep flexible hours, so I can be Connor and Griffin’s Mom (my other job title) and do fun things like chaperoning field trips, and so I can take it easier on the days when the spirit is willing but the flesh is weakweakweak. I’m bemused to find myself in the same industry as my Darling Husband<\/a>, but I couldn’t be happier in a non-teaching job than I am right now.<\/p>\n

The second grown-up thing I’ve done this year is starting to take care of myself. I’m still not any good at putting myself first, but all the fabulous coaching from the excellent folks at Fairview Pain Management Center<\/a> has taught me many reasons and many ways to look after myself better than I have in the past. So now, when I recognize that I’m on sensory overload, I don’t hesitate to just step out for a few minutes. I take mini-breaks, even if only for five mindful breaths, throughout the day, which helps me better evaluate the messages my body is sending. I’ve adjusted the way I do my jobs as worker, wife, and mother to incorporate body mechanics that keep me able to work longer and smarter. And at the end of this year, I’m managing my pain with 25-50% less medication, the least I’ve been on in almost nine years.<\/p>\n

So that’s how I’ve matured this year. Everything else? Peter Pan all the way, baby.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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